Siblings are the best blessing of God. You never get short of a person / partner to tease, play, care, fight, support and to see a strengthen bad times. At times sibling them self feel like they are being curse to have sibling that they have , when some fighting become more of a stretch. They keep on finding reason to blackmail on your secrets .Securing your things like a treasure from each other. sneak peak what your sibling upto but we are miss these pros and cons once the shade of adulthood covers the head of us.
A very in-common joke adult (sibling) use to crack on the younger ones that ‘Parents bought/picked you up from a garbage bin as you were crying alot there that your original parents left u due to your cranky behavior and that is why our mom and dad too dont love u more’. These venerable phases of life will it with spices of life which we agree is the perfect mixture of happy life.
I too have two monster siblings in my family who keep on pulling my leg even after 09 years of my marriage and cheery on the cake are my two kids too. They don’t miss a single chance to tease me. I remember in my school days my brother never complete his homework and always make puppy face that he is going to get scolded by teacher , then always convince me to feel pity and emotionally force to complete his work . I use to make late night chit-chats on kitchen slab with my sister while making Maggie during our college days, crush and what not. I miss old days. She was my secret keeper and soul sharer . She bring out the hidden craziness in me which I always used to shade up due to the eldest of them. and under my cover of sincerity my younger were always full of craziness and life.
My brother is younger one amongst three sibling but he act as elder brother who guide,secure us. Now he tease me with its longemotions of love I can see in my kids too. My daughter is 7 year where as my son is just 15 month but there love, fight, care amaze me every time and recalled me of my time with my little one is so fond of his sister that he does not want to leave her for a second. He want to do whatever her sister is doing .If she is sleeping he will go and lay on her, try to climb on her to wake up. If she is wearing hairband , he want to wear it too. Eating from her hand and plate is daily course of his routine. In the morning he wake up early then her and goes to see her sister. He is in schedule to go for dropping his sister to her school van and goes in school van along with her and does not want to come out. most innocent and cute thing they both does is when ever a courier box come. my little champ sit inside and my daughter push it like cart all in the house.
I think having only one child make him/her more pampering but along with with that it will miss the concept of sharing where as sharing and having other as partner is lovely concept which comes automatically in sibling affairs.
Here is my journey from my sibling to my kids (siblings) bond. what is your “Khaata meetha rishte” with your sibling . lets have some comment fall-in that will let you too cherish the most beautiful moments of your life .from you to know your journey of sibling.