admire yourself

We often read posts and articles about self love,self worth and self admiration but tend to forget to apply it and mostly don’t know how to. In our daily lives we praise others on the basis of their looks,clothes,hair,qualities,complexion etc but in the process we forget ourselves. We never take time to discover our own positives and always rely on others to do that. You should be your first and foremost priority. Once you start loving yourself everyone else will.

Here are some ways which can help you to admire yourself:

  • Embrace your own self : Accept yourself as you are .Do not get jealous of others because they’ve got better looks or personality because the truth is that no one is happy in his/her own skin.People want a longer face, a smaller nose, light coloured eyes, better hair, sharp jawline, fair skin,tall height,slimmer body and what not. It might be that the other person does not like that thing about them for which you are praising them for. You have to learn how to carry yourself.

  • Increase your knowledge :

knowledge

Read about things.Develop new interests and passions. Develop new hobbies. The more you read and know about things the more you become self dependent.Try to help others with your knowledge. In this way you will also feel proud of yourself and will make yourself more admirable.

  • Look at your qualities : Try and look into yourself instead of always comparing yourself with others. You will know how many qualities you possess. So what if you can’t dance well,you might be a great singer or an amazing artist or a good debater.Our self-confidence gets more and more reduced, if our thoughts are negative about ourselves.If you consider yourself a loser,the world will automatically think the same.

  • Live life on your own terms :

    admire yourself

This is one thing which is very important in every person’s life because at the end of the day,you are answerable to your own conscience. If you are not able to answer yourself how or why you did a certain thing,you become guilty in your own eyes which could be the worst thing in the world. Don’t change yourself for anyone or do things you don’t want to do for someone’s friendship or to gain their approval. Don’t be afraid to say “No” if you actually mean it.

  • Don’t let other people’s opinions about you control you : Being a listener is not a bad thing because it lets you gain different perspectives about a certain thing but don’t become an approval addict.There are many people who allow themselves to be forever shaped by what others have said or done to them. It’s like they are saying if you love me, I will love myself. In this way you will never be able to attain self-respect because you’ll always be in the grip of others. 

  • Adopt a positive attitude : One of the best ways to admire yourself is to think positively about yourself and motivate to do things in your own way. Be more compassionate towards others. Learn to deal with problems keeping a positive outlook because what you consider as a big problem might seem very simple when you come to know about people who suffer worse than you.

  • Be honest : Always be honest and truthful towards yourself. Learn to admit your mistakes because then only you can improvise. If you can take responsibility for every action of yours then you gain respect and admiration for yourself.

When a person finally learns to love himself and his own body, he gets confidence and that confidence is attractive. So let’s make a promise to realize our self worth and admire ourselves because if we don’t,no one else will.

April 1, 2020

5 Replies to “Admire Yourself”

  1. Kinshoo Agrawal says: April 2, 2020 at 8:34 pm

    Wonderfully written positive post. Knowledge is absolute must and one must know self-worth and not let anyone else demean you. Keep writing!

  2. Sindhu Vinod Narayan says: April 2, 2020 at 9:31 am

    Completely agree with your points self admiration is the first step to self loving regimen.
    #tmmreads #blogchattera2z

  3. Noor Anand Chawla says: April 2, 2020 at 2:51 am

    These are all great suggestions to propagate self love

  4. NIHARIKA CHATTERJEE says: April 2, 2020 at 1:04 am

    These points are great reminder to self so that we can admire small aspects of self…we need to practice this every day

  5. Jyoti Arora says: April 1, 2020 at 1:32 pm

    loved your post ! great inspiration and the ways you wrote to admire oneself .!!

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