Being a father is all about caring , protecting , guiding and possessing all other responsibilities smoothly without making anyone realise that what in a person you go through while you carry out all your duties. Fathers are pillars in overall development of a child be it in any aspect. Being a father is way more difficult than any relation that exists around.
Fathers never complain , unlike our mothers they are also never off their duties. They are the backbone of the family , a person whose place cannot be taken by anyone. In the picture of one’s life you may be surrounded by a big crowd but its your father( a one man army ) who is behind the curtains making efforts , planning things , pushing you so that you can shine out bright.
A father slips into several other roles such as a friend or guide and switches back to role of father when needed. This switch and slip accordingly defines the versatility as a person. A father most importantly works on leading an example in their children life. The very first superhero in any child life , your idea of a perfect man. Though in general we don’t talk about the attributes of a father but these never go unnoticed.
In today’s chancing scenarios role of a father is not just limited to earning for family and teaching some basic life lessons rather it is doing every possible thing that were supposed to be done by a mother.
Expressing your love and gratitude towards your father has been the toughest since ages from almost everyone. But that’s not fair enough on your part to not do so.
From your childhood to your adulthood there are innumerable things that you can be grateful to your father for.
For their hard work and happy provide
From the very first day of your life to your entire growing age they work as hard as they can just to provide the best at every stage of your life.
For the time given to you-
No matter how busy he is up with his work , he reaches you out everywhere you need him.
For teaching you the big lessons of life-
“CHARM PYARA NHI KAAM PYARA HOTA HAI”. He use to say that as I worry a lot about not being beautiful. He build my confidence in me by saying these words. I never forget his words which means beauty is not important, work is being appreciated more. So be hard-working and good at heart. Face beauty is temporary but your work and your inner beauty is most important to you and in society that make you a better person that really make me a better person in life. People salute my work not my face beauty.
I am successful entrepreneur,wife,mother and his daughter that is all gift by his advice & guidance.
From sharing his life experiences to being your partner in crime , he somehow develops you in a person who holds a good grip on the real values of life.
For guiding and protecting you-
Their entire life revolves around guiding and protecting you. They gradually turn out to be your go to person in every situation.
For telling you to see the larger pictures-
He teaches us to be brave , to be broad minded , to look on the real things , to grow up with values and implement them in lives. His encouragement and love makes you to aim high in life.
There is a never ending list. Letting them know that you are thankful to them is not a nut cracking thing. It’s as easy as praising your mother. Fathers do love praises , they too enjoy a surprise , getting acknowledge for the efforts they put in.
Multiple ways to THANK them or APPRECIATE them–
Make sure you give him frequent hugs-
let him feel the warmth of your love as they made you feel. Tell him what he means to you.
Appreciate the little things they do around-
Small words of appreciation can enlighten anyone’s day. It would make him feel special.
Prepare a good meal of his favourite dishes-
A good food is the best way to reach the hearts. It is a unique way to express your gratitude towards him.
Bake a special cake with the flavour of his choice-
In this spiced up relationship a cake would be best thing to sweeten your bond.
Spend a good time watching his favourite movies together-
Movie dates with your loved ones gives you a good amount of time to spend together.
Plan trips to his favourite places-
Trips gives you memories to cherish for years . Give him a break from his hectic life and let him love himself.
Recreate some special moments of his life-
Recreate some favourite times of his life. Reach out to his favourite places along with him or his friends with whom he has spent some good time.
Give him gifts that encourages his hobby-
Working hard for life they neglect their hobbies and passion. Gift them such things that would bring them close to themselves.
Plan a surprise party with his favourite people-
Everyone loves surprises and same goes with our fathers. Plan a surprise where you can express your love and gratitude towards him, where he feels like a hero, where he gets acknowledge for his efforts.
Write a heartful message to him- Let him know how much you love him, how much you care for him. Let him feel the warmth of your love.
In general the happiness of our parents lies in well being of their children. A few words of acknowledgement would fill their heart with happiness. Fathers are precious gifts in are life. There are times when we take them for granted. But we must realize that life without him will be dark and gloomy. His contributes a certainly too great to imagine. Under his guidance nothing can stop us from achieving heights of success.