Your family is your home. The place your family dwells together happily is your home. You love your home not because of the buildings but because of the relations and the warmth of those relations you share in that building.The mantra of having a happy family is knowing, helping each other and understanding them.
If we are living in a family, everyone should take part in house chores. This does not lead a burden on one person more of love and understanding will dwell.
Even I see this gender bias in my parent home, my father never took part with mom. Maybe he also raises up learning that house chore is woman work and it is not meant for a man but I always feel it is wrong.
The woman is involved and making its place in men’s work field but why men are not eager to take part in women’s house chore work. What that state that women are much superior to men who can do any work household or office?
Even once the woman is in her 60’s and the husband has retired, the woman is accountable is for housework. Even this case is with me. If I am unwell, nobody else would be doing my chore of work that ends up doing it by myself. Yes, Maybe some men help the lady of the house in that scenario however honestly they are doing it after they wish to and not as a result of it is a part of their responsibility.
Some time that makes me think Is women are not a human being, they are treated like a robot.
The more surprising fact is that in our country, Mother India boost that their son lives like a king never lift a finger. Indian men take less part in household than other countries is proven
WOMEN DO MORE HOUSEHOLD CHORES THAN MEN, STUDY FINDS
It is our owe upbringing mistakes. To make tomorrow better we need to make changes today.
From running to skating, we teach our kids everything in their formative years.
Because we know what they learn at a young age stays with the entire life. It is starting of inculcating the habit in childhood for better adulthood.
That’s why it is important that we teach our kids that household chores are not just a womanly duty. That it’s as much a man’s job to wash the dishes/clothes as it is a woman’s.
I have decided this will never happen in my family. I will raise my son with no gender inequality in work. My both kids (son and daughter) share and will share the same task. No duty is based on women and men’s.
The secret of happy family mantra is #sharetheload
No.no.no it’s not woman’s duty of household.
Take a step further my man to be a bold
Don’t be shy don’t be ashame make all house proud.
#sharetheload say it aloud.
What is your house rule #sharetheload or work divided according to gender?